Organized Diaper Bag

I find the difference between my packing the diaper bag as a first time mother, and now as a third timer, hysterical.  I used to take everything but the kitchen sink.  I was so worried that I'd need something while we were out and it would essentially make our lives miserable for that (very small) period of time.
I've narrowed down what I typically used to bring to just the essentials. Here's my list of what I try to have in my diaper bag at all times.

Baby Needs:
Diapers (about 1 per hour you"ll be out) Although I usually just bring three.
Mini Wipes Case of course
Diaper Cream
A Changing Pad
A burp cloth
A large receiving blanket that usually doubles as a burp cloth, or a cover for feeding
An extra outfit - Sleep & Play, undershirt ( be sure to change it out as baby grows or seasons change
Extra Bib
A hat and baby mittens

Mommy Needs:
Wallet and car key
Comb
Lip gloss
Sometimes an eyeliner
The baby record books for the doctor
Receipt and Coupon holder
Breast Pads
Antibacterial wipes and gel

The Extras:
Boogie Wipes (mostly for Munchkin and Bear)
A baggie filled with mini packets of cleaner, and stain remover wipes

This is everything on the list, plus Munchkin and CJ.

 I know the list seems pretty long, but it all fits neatly in my diaper bag.  When I was searching for a diaper bag while pregnant with the Munchkin, I had one thing on my mind.  CUTE!! I wanted it to be baby cute, so I chose one that was brown and turquoise with a cute little teddy bear. Blah Blah Blah.  It had only one large pocket which basically meant it had zero organization.  Everything was just in there.

I chose this diaper bag for its function and basic style.

Here it is empty, just waiting to be filled with all its goodies.

Here's How I organize my bag.

First, my stuff.  I usually don't take my own separate bag if were going out for a short trip.  This all fits neatly in the zippered pocket in the front.

 Next I fill the two snap pockets in the front of the bag.  One gets the goodies like Boogie wipes (which smell delightful if I may add).  In the other, I place the hat and mittens.

                           

Onto the inside.  In the main space I add the burp cloth and Receiving blanket.  I have a snuggle thing (can't think of the real name) over the baby's car seat, which eliminates the need for a heavy winter blanket.

The two empty back pockets get diaper cream, lotion, and diapers.  I usually bring between 2-4 diapers, since he gets changed right before we leave to go anywhere.

 There is another pocket with elastic in the front (see, lots of pockets = awesome organizing), this is where I keep the extra outfit and bib.

The back open pocket gets the pad and wipes.

There are two side pockets on the outside of this bag.  One is used for antibacterial wipes. I like it here, because it gives me easy access.  My antibacterial gel is a mini one that usually clips onto one of the straps.  The other pocket is currently not being used, but at some point a water bottle or sippy cup will go in there.  I also have a little mini pacifier holder, though It's kind of pointless since CJ doesn't care much for them.

Sometimes depending on where we are going I may bring a toy or throw some extra snacks for the big boys.

All packed up and ready to go!

Quiet Over Here

Things have been mighty quiet here at Rosey Glasses.  I'm imagining virtual tumble weeds.  All for great reason though.  I am enjoying my guys (the big and the littles).  I've been keeping home, playing with race cars and Legos, EBF, and celebrating my wedding anniversary.  Oh, and patiently waiting for Spring.  I've got some big ideas cooking for when the weather gets warmer and I can bring all three outside.

Thanks for stopping by!

EBF

EBF.  EBF is short for exclusively breast feeding.  Although I must say, there is nothing short about it.  It takes a lot of time.  A lot of patience, and for me, a long time before my nips weren't sore.   Sounds fun right?  Actually it's wonderful.  EBF is an awesome bonding experience and an excellent reason to stop whatever it is I'm doing, sit down and put my feet up.

I have been away from Rosey Glasses for quite a while.  I just didn't have the energy to do much during my last months of pregnancy (okay the whole pregnancy) and during the first 2 months of little CJ's life.  Yes, my sweet little boy is here and two months old.  He is the third child I've breastfed, but the first that I have exclusively breastfed.  He's never had a bottle although he did get about a half ounce of formula in a supplemental feeder to help him latch.  I am super proud of myself.  It has taken a lot of determination and endurance (cracked nipples anyone?).

I always knew I would breastfeed, and honestly have no problem with formula.  My first two received a mixture of both.  However, I believe this will be my last baby and I wanted to see if I could do it.  Could I be my child's only source of food?  Could I dedicate myself to the goal of at least one year?  So I'm doing it!

Now it's only been two months, but we are going strong.  We have survived clogged milk ducts, cracked and bleeding nipples, and latching problems, but we are doing it!!  I do plan on introducing bottles... Momma wants a glass of wine!!! But he will only get bottles of breast milk and only on rare occasions.

Sorry if I seem to be gloating, it's only because I'm so freaking proud of myself!! With that said, it is not my intent to belittle mommas that choose to bottle feed.  We all do what is best for our families and no one should feel bad about how things turn out.

Be Blessed!!!

My Newest Addiction

I have a new addiction everyone.  I'm still loving to organize, teach my little tots (and preschooler now),  and I still love to host a good event... but I have found something new to keep me busy...  Cloth Diapers!

Can you believe it?  I never thought in a million years that I'd actually be taking the plunge.  My interest in cloth diapering began almost four years ago, while pregnant with Munchkin.  I am hardly a card carrying member of the Captain Planet Team, but I am somewhat eco-sensitive... if that's a word.  I very often forget to bring my reusable grocery bags to the store... but I reuse the ones I get for garbage and mostly doggie duty outside.  I try and recycle anything that can be recycled.  While newly pregnant with my first baby I decided to look into it.  Let's just say for anyone who has ever tried to "look into" cloth diapering, they know how totally overwhelming it is.  It's not your grandmama's cloth anymore, or should I say it's not JUST your grandmama's cloth anymore.  You can still find the old school flats and prefolds, but now there is just so much more!  So much that it is extremely overwhelming.  Basically I got bored of trying to figure everything out and that was the end of that.  When I found myself preggers with Little Bear I thought about it again, but only very briefly.  I'd successfully used disposables and thought it'd be a bit crazy to start with two little one under 2.

So yes, I've decided to start with (what will be) 3 kids, three and under... yes crazy! 

Why?

My answer is simple..  I am expecting this to be my last baby, and I really like to try everything at least once.  Plus, well, not to toot my own horn, but I'm a bit more of an experienced momma this time around.  So when the thought popped into my head, I started googling, and stalking some cloth diaper forums, and watching you tube video after video.  After a while, all the cloth diapering lingo became more and more familiar.  I began to understand!  So jump in right??... wrong!!  There are a lot of variables to consider while cloth diapering like ease, cost, and size.  Cost being a big one.  Yes, over time cloth diapering is probably (in most cases) cheaper.  However, if you get carried away (which I'm learning many people do) you can expect to probably break even... then again you could sell your stash or use it for another baby to come.  The best advice I read is to decide your reasoning, and go from there.  My reason, as I've said before, is mostly to try something new, with cost and environment coming in tied for second.  So how do I try something new, with out investing too much in the beginning.  By going the part time route.  This means I will use them while at home, and keep disposables on hand just in case the laundry doesn't get done in time.  "Baby Steps".

So I ordered my first set. 

I decided to go with a less expensive pocket diaper (perhaps in an up coming post, I'll explain the different types... or at least point you in the right direction).   An online buddy suggested Sunbabies one size.  I ordered 6 with bamboo inserts (no there are not bamboo sticks inside... ouch!!)  $51.00.  I figure that's not too bad of an upfront cost.  I also bought a drying rack for $20 from Walmart.  Then I added two BumGenious 4.0s (another type of diaper) just because.  They were 17.99 a pop!!... so I stopped there.

We have been cloth diapering part time for only a few days.  I've encountered both wet and solid messes, and  I've completed one load of diaper wash, and I gotta say... I'm still excited!  I'm loving it.  I love watching Little Bear run around with his fuzzy butt.  The texture on the inside is so soft, I can only imagine it's much more comfy for him.  Comfy for baby, better for environment... so far so good!  Even though I am enjoying it so far, I've decided to give it another week or so before ordering more, and beginning my newborn stash.  I gotta say it is extremely difficult... there are so many kinds and options. Sigh... Patience!!

Until next time... Have a wonderful day!!

A New Mail System!!

Hello all!

I know I don't post often, but I had to come on and show off a little of what I've been up to (besides growing a new human).

Remember this?  It's our family's command center.  Well I've added a new feature.  Can you see it?

Here's a closer look!  I am really excited about it, especially since we've been using this system for about three weeks and it still looks the same!  Gasp!!! No pile-ups, Simple to maintain, and the best yet... Mr. Roseyglasses is totally on board!! I'm in love!! (with him and my new mail center).

Here's how it works.  When the mail comes in (everyday), it gets opened immediately (okay, sometimes after dinner).  When I (or Mr. Roseyglasses.. since he is totally into this) open the mail:

First, the envolope, and any junk mail goes straight in the garbage... yes I know, I know.. I need to start recycling my papers along with the cardboard, plastics, metals we already recycle... I know!  I'm working on it!

Second, the leftover mail (which is surprisingly light... mostly its all junk) gets sorted into one of four categories.  To File: anything that we need to keep like bank statements, or random information (that my husband still likes to keep... hey, one step at a time).  Take Action:  These are things that I need to actually do something about (minus bills) like if a phone call needs to be made, or I have to research something. To Pay: Obviously, these are bills that must be paid.  The bill, along with the mail back envelope, go in the bin.  I write the due date on a post it note and stick it on.

Third, I smile.  Honestly it took me longer to type this than it does to actually do this everyday.  Seriously it only takes like 2 minutes.  This is the longest the command center has remained neat.  Usually stacks of mail pile up.  If I did the mail, and file it, or put it away.. my hubby would get frustrated because he couldn't find what he was looking for.  If he was left to do it... it would pile up on the island in the kitchen, which just makes me nuts.

How do I stop the trays from getting overloaded?  Glad you asked!! Every Wednesday I have my "office hours".  I kind of got this idea from Flylady.net.  Wednesday is the day I go through the piles, file what needs to be filed, make phone calls that need to be made (some times I do have to take action on certain items immediately... but not usually), do my heavy research.  I get some done on my iPad, but not all.   Perhaps I'll blog (if I'm up to it).  It's also the day I straighten up the office.

I am so happy that we have finally found something that works for us!  Okay.. I'm gonna go back and stare at it for a while longer.  Have a fabulous day!

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Half Way There!!

I can not believe I am half way there.  I am half way to being a mother of three kids, 3 and under (gasp!).  I'm half way to my life changing (again).  I'm half way on the way to falling in love again, to cuddling, nursing, and staring at my new baby.  Whether or not it will be a little prince or princess is still a surprise, and if I can remain strong and resolute it will remain a surprise until our bundle arrives.  I must admit I am very curious, although my gut is telling me I will add another little man to our family.

We are exactly 20 weeks, 5 days right now.  Our baby is about the length of a banana, weighing in at around 10 1/2 ounces.  Baby continues to swallow, and is settling into sleeping patterns.  I have been feeling this little bean a lot.  Usually it's when I get a chance to lay down, figures.

Mr. Rosey Glasses and I have been talking a lot about the elephant in the room named preeclampsia.  I've had it twice now, developing HELLP with Little Bear.  He is nervous... very nervous.  He tends to freak out in situations that are out of his control, and pre-e is one of those things.  My feeling is that we have been there done that.  If it happens again we will deal with whatever cards we are dealt.  I do however hope to have just one normal pregnancy ending in a full-term delivery.

As I'm writing this post I've had to get up to stop impending fights over toy cars a few times, start a movie on the TV, and listen to Little Bear whine at my side because he wants to sit on my lap, which of course means he will also want to "help" me type.  I worry about these things more than pre-e.  How will I meet the needs of everyone in my family?  How can I do it and still enjoy it the new lifethat we've added.  This is something hopefully I can work out before our little one arrives.

Speaking of the other members.  We have been doing tot school, although very sporadically.  The boys are mostly enjoying the summer.  I say mostly because I can't remember a day I spent where I didn't hear crying or screaming from someone at some point.  I am not the cool "take them to the pool everyday" like I thought I'd be, but I think I make up for it with sprinkler and mini pool at home days.

Look at my two little boys.  I can't believe how big and grown they are looking!  I can't believe how in a few months my heart is going to grow to love a new one just the same.

Wednesday Again

It's Wednesday again.. this seems to be my new blog day.   So for a quick update on my goals:  I have moved the Christmas boxes to the basement (by I, I mean my husband.. lol). There is now room in the closet to turn it into a toy closet (insert evil laugh).. where all the toys of the house will be held captive until the smaller inhabitants can clean up after themselves!!! (more evil laughing)... well maybe I won't go that far, but I am still trying to come up with a plan for toy rotation.   I'm working out how many toys will be allowed in the playroom, and in different areas of the house, how often I'll switch out toys... all a work in progress.

My closet is cleaned, I'm caught up on the laundry and it feels so good to be able to walk in with out stepping on clothes that may or may not be clean.

I failed miserably on my goal to wash the floors.  I just didn't get to it, so it will be my only goal this coming week.

Tot School. 

I think I've mentioned before that things have really slowed down in terms of tot school.  I did both Mm and Nn last week.  I basically skirted through them.   We didn't even do letter art for N.  But I really wanted to do Oo for oceans this week because we are taking a trip to the aquarium and I just thought it'd fit perfectly together.  Anyway, we did read the letter books for both letters.  Free downloads from here.

We did manage to squeeze in M is for mountain.  It turned out very cute, although I totally forgot to snap a pic.  There is a finished product on No Time For Flash Cards.  That's where I get most of my letter are ideas.

Munchkin really loves his Tot Time Notebook.  Check out the website and downloads here.  I started out using dry erase markers, but he takes all the tops off and they roll all over and he is too tempted to color all over himself.  Now we use dry erase crayons.  They work out much better.  I am in the process of putting together a Notebook for Little Bear.  By his age I'd already taught Munchkin his shapes and colors.  I get so caught up trying to get Little Bear to talk and say words that colors and shapes kind of get the back seat.

Believe it or not I still haven't found the perfect place in my house for tot school and yes, we've been doing "school time" for over a year.   I need a place to do art work, intentional play with learning toys, and table work or skill practice.  We tried the playroom for a while.  Should have been perfect... not so.  It's too distracting and since the boys are used to doing anything they want in there and there are more toys than either of them need, they have 0 attention when we are in there.  I thought about our upstairs guest room which doubles as my craft room.  However all of our tot school things are stored downstairs, and lugging supplies and learning toys up and down was way to inconvenient.  Basically I'm to lazy to do it up there.  The kitchen seems to be working out and the table would be best,  but I've already left two marks from crafting.  Sometimes they sit at the island in our kitchen.. the granite seems to be able to hold up to art work, but Little Bears booster doesn't sit comfortably so he can't reach the table.  Then I end up putting his tray on, but it's too small to hold most papers.  We do have that little table that was perfect for Munchkin, I suppose I could try and see if Little Bear can work there comfortably too.  As I'm typing I'm getting an idea to split up tot school and do different activities in different places.... hmmmm.

Well gotta run... I here some random banging coming from the playroom which really needs a good cleaning.  Have a wonderful rest of the week. :-)